For
much of this past week I have been in and out of meetings at all different
times of day and every imaginable length. Given the time of year it really isn’t
a surprise to have these kinds of days. The summer months are a time for
planning and strategy in addition to our usual ongoing efforts. However, it is
during these long sessions in the conference room when the conversations tend
to veer off course.
One
of the common culprits is a when a simple reference is made and only half of
those in the room know the origin of the term or word. It’s like when someone
knocks on the door and says “Land shark” or “Candy gram” there are going to be
people with grins and others with blank stares. This inevitably turns the
discussion into a back and forth about what we remember growing up and what may
have been missed by some.
It
is fascinating how much you can relate to your colleagues just by recalling
random memories from childhood and during the early parts of your life. Not the
major events just the small moments, songs, television shows, movies, and the
other things that passed by without us giving them a second thought. Even the
way that certain streets used to look or department stores that we used to
visit. These are the conversations that make me wonder if I have really gotten
to that point in life when we look back and wonder how things have changed so
much.
Of
course, what doesn’t help in this self-evaluation is the fact that I rarely get
references to current pop culture and I frequently find myself giving
directions according to old stores and landmarks. Heck, I still prefer writing
notes by hand, reading paper copies of books and documents, and paying by
check. And, what really throws off my oldest niece, I still text in complete sentences
with all the words spelled out… I don’t know if that is more my age, a little OCD,
or both.
In
the end, time moves forward, life happens, and changes occur. All we can do is
keep our perspective and appreciate all that we have seen and done… everything
it a memory. While we can see, feel, and sense our memories that is all that
they are. It is interesting how those present events can awaken the thoughts of
the past merging the two into a new experience that makes you wonder how old
you really are. It makes you think about how long it will take before you look
back at today in the same way that you look back to memories from childhood. Is
that even possible? I guess we will have to wait and find out.
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