One
of the things that I didn’t think about when I decided on my new car was the
sound that it makes when I lock it after getting home at night. It is a rather inconsequential
attribute and I frankly didn’t car but I wasn’t thinking about how that sound
was associated with my return home. With the Malibu, my son had gotten used to
the sound it made when I locked the car. He knew that I was home when he heard
the noise. Thankfully, the Cherokee makes a very similar sound.
While
there are many nights when my car gives away my arrival, there are a several
evenings when he is oblivious to my walking through the front door. This is
usually the case when he is fussing or sleeping. If he is awake, as soon as he
hears my voice he begins looking around trying to find me. It is quite the cute sight. Once he sees me, his eyes brighten and he gives me a big smile (unless
he is particularly grumpy that day). I don’t care what kind of day I have had
up until then, it is a good day from that point forward.
Because
she sees this every work day, this kind of annoys my wife. However, this past
weekend I was able to be on the other end of the situation as I watched our son
during the day while my wife ran some errands that she had been meaning to get
to. Our son was not happy to see his mommy leave but I was able to keep him
active and occupied while she was gone. As soon as I heard her pull up and lock
the car, I let our baby know, and the search began. As soon as she walked
through the door and he turned his head, the same bright eyed smile surfaced.
So I
guess we are doing okay so far. Our son looks forward to seeing each of us and
misses his mommy and daddy when they have to go out for a while. It makes me
think about how hard it is going to be when we put him in daycare and, down the
road, when we send him off to school. At the same time, I can still look
forward to that smile and the ensuing cooing when we are reunited at the end of
the day. That is, of course, if I don’t screw up between now and then.