Time To Keep It Simple serves as a record of my life as a traveler, writer, genealogist, photographer, target sports enthusiast, Rotarian, Mason, Jew, PR professional, and many other (mostly positive) things. In addition to this daily blog I am also the man behind the curtain (not named Oz) at gettingyourphil.blogspot.com and I previously blogged at fromgoytooleh.blogspot.com.
Tuesday, July 12, 2016
TMI Tuesday: Who Knew Cleaning Was So Much Fun
Our Son's New Toy!
wife and I entered the childcare search with a little trepidation not really
knowing how to approach the process. We have already found a great daycare in
the area but there are times when we would like to get out for the evening or
have someone at the house when either the daycare is closed or when our son is
home sick. While we know that our family is there whenever we need them, we
can’t expect them to make the long drive out to us all of the time. We also
have a number of people that we know in closer proximity but that is where the
allergy part of the equation comes into play… our home needs to remain free of
cats (and their dander), nuts, and shellfish.
the responses that we received through Care.com there were a number of them
that pretty much disqualified themselves simply in how they responded to our
posting. Some didn’t bother reading what we had written (to the point of
addressing their communication to some other name entirely), others had no
business in childcare, a few wanted us to pay them for dropping our son off at
their house, and others touted their love of animals of all kinds (see the
first noted disqualifier). As for the other, thankfully, my wife’s background
has been tremendously helpful in weeding out some of the “candidates”.
took some time but finally we came across someone with a background that we
were looking for, the clearances we were requiring, and a personality that
matched well with our family. Despite our son’s grumpy sleepiness, this initial
impression was proven correct when we met with her last week. As a bonus, she
was also willing to take on the chore of cleaning our home on a weekly basis
eliminating our need to conduct a second search. Sometimes things seem to just
fall into place.
wanting to waste any time, and also wanting to get a handle on the cleaning, we
had her start this past weekend to see how she would interact without our son
and how our son would interact with her. After only a few minutes it was as if
they had known one another all along and our son even “helped” her clean a
little following close behind with a duster double checking her work and
pushing his “vacuum” back and forth across the play room taking care all of the
spots she missed. More importantly, he was comfortable having her around and
the two of them played and read together for much of the morning which allowed
my wife and I to take care of some organizing around the kitchen.
took some time to find someone but sometimes you have to wait for the right
opportunity to come about to find that perfect fit for your family. Fortunately, I also had a copy of his baby book on
hand to get her up to speed! Looks like things may
work out and we should have some time for ourselves moving forward and a clean
house every week which will allow us to spend more quality time with our little
boy on the weekends. And that is well worth the extra expense of having someone
come in once a week.