It
has been a bit crazy lately with everything that has been going on. If you look
back at the most recent crop of posts you can easily figure out why. Adding to
all of this is the fact that I am hearing from people on Facebook that I haven’t
had conversations with in quite some time. If it happened at any other point it
would seem odd but the simple fact of the matter is that as soon as you post
the first picture of your new baby (which we keep to a minimum) people come out
of the woodwork.
This
influx of communications has been great. It has been the perfect excuse to
restart conversations and see how people are doing. As many people, family and
friends, can attest I am not the greatest when it comes to staying in touch. I
am rather sporadic in reaching out to people as there is usually one thing or
another that comes up and steals my attention. I am not nearly as bad as I used
to be but I am by no means where I would like to be. This is proving to be a
tremendous opportunity to fix that at least a little bit.
Social
media has always been an issue for me as it is part of my daily work routine so
by the time I get out of the office I am kind of done with it. As has been
evident, much of my usage of Facebook, LinkedIn, and Twitter has been largely
one way rather than the dialogue that it is meant to be. This is why I included
the screen shot at the top of this post. This is what social media is supposed
to do… it is an alternative means of communication.
With
that said, it is still difficult to combine the work and personal and social
media is one of those places where I still see it as work. Maybe it is for this
reason, or the fact that I am still a traditionalist, that I prefer talking to
someone on the phone or writing a letter (an actual letter not email). Those
are the places where I can disconnect from work even though I still use each of
them during the course of the day.
Social
media is where I still have the issue of being able to disconnect but the
recent discussions I have had have gone a long way to alleviate that issue. In
the end, don’t be surprised if I am not as responsive as most people on social
media… I spend too much time on it getting work done for clients and by the end
of the day I tend to ignore those sites. Plus, I have seen the good and bad
sides of these social sites and I tend to limit much of what I put on there
(believe it or not). This is now particularly true as it pertains to my son. However,
if you want to catch up and/or talk about the baby feel free to give me a call,
write a letter, or send an email.
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