Over
the last couple of weeks my wife and I have been picking up supplies,
coordinating food, and ordering a special cake (the product from the local
Walmart was surprisingly good). It was all for a very special day and a memory that
we wanted our son to carry with him in these early recollections of life. So,
with the Mickey decorations strewn about the kitchen and lining the driveway, this
past weekend we had a very small gathering at our home to celebrate our son’s
birthday (even though we think the calendar is lying to us). It was a great,
low key, get together which actually required less preparation and clean up than
my wife and I were expecting.
While
he is now playing shy around most people now, it was great seeing him play and
watching his face light up when a present piqued his interest. After lunch and
presents it was time for cake and while most kids would love to smash the heck
out of the confection and get icing on their face, our son wanted nothing to do
with this and was displeased when the blue icing founds its way to his face
(with a little assistance… and no it wasn’t me). After that it was just about
time to pass out for the afternoon and to recover from the mid-day activities.
In
the few days since this gathering we did our best to continue making this a special
time for our son. In addition to the plethora of presents that were brought or
sent to the house, we have continued to celebrate his birth and giving him a
little more leeway regarding play and television time… Mickey is just as
entertaining the second, third, and forth times on the loop. However, with so
much activity and simulation (plus some intense teething), his schedule is a
little off and, when playing, he sometimes has trouble deciding what new toy to
play with. While we originally put his other toys away before the party as a
means of keeping things clean, it has actually served us well as there is now a
whole new host of toys at his disposal.
It
has been a great couple of days celebrating our son’s birthday and I am glad
that we spread the distraction over the entire weekend. Even though there have
been moments of readjustment after so many days following an alternate routine,
it has been well worth the effort and few hiccups along the way. I guess you
could mark this down as another first experience of parenthood… the birthday
party hangover.
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