Yesterday
started early as I had to make my way to Ollie’s to pick up the couch for which
I had arranged transport yesterday. Since the E-Z Pass situation remained
unresolved, I was running just a few minutes behind schedule (about the time it
takes to pay and get change at the toll), but made it there only a couple
minutes after my Masonic brother and his pickup truck. After a few passes
through the aisles to put a few needed items in my cart, I made my way to check
out, paid for the new selections, and had the three foot square box brought out
to the curb. About 40 minutes later and everything was offloaded and in my
office. All the while, my brother refused any and all kinds of compensation for
his kindness.
Now
that this task was done, my wife and I relaxed by unpacking a few more boxes
before we headed out the door early in the afternoon. It was party time! Off we
went to Bryn Mawr for another family holiday party where we could catch up with
those we haven’t seen since the same time last year. Of course, this year was a
little different as my wife walked through the doors in an obvious state.
What
we found out when we arrived was that there was other news circulating around
the house in that one cousin was also expecting and another just got engaged
the previous week. It really was a time to celebrate all the good news which we
both needed with everything else that is going on. So we made the rounds
knowing what the introductory topic was going to be with each relative.
Later
in the evening, while the grandmom shots were being poured and passed (this is
what happens when you find an unopened bottle of Southern Comfort at the family
party), my cousin (the one who is also my brother) walked up to me with a small
box in hand. He had said in the past that he had something for me but I had
honestly forgotten about it. As it turns out, I can now wear something representing
both sides of my family at each lodge meeting… my grandfather’s ring (from my
mom’s side) and cufflinks from my cousin (my dad’s side). While I have received
many gifts this season sometimes it is the unexpected ones that really surprise
you and appreciate the bonds that you have with family and brothers.
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