Already working on his degrees! |
It should be no surprise that I wasn’t at the lodge last night. Instead we were
still in the maternity ward with our son maintaining the annoying face mask
boundary. While in the past I may have been annoyed that I wasn’t there to
support my brothers in their education, I was much happier supporting my wife
and son as they both recovered. And while I may not have been able to spend
time with my lodge brothers last night, I was able to introduce my brother to
his new nephew which proved to be one of the highlights of the day.
As
soon as my wife woke me up early Sunday morning I knew that my schedule (in
addition to our lives) would be just a little different this week so it didn’t
take long before a sent a mass text to some of the usual attendees letting them
know of my joyous absence. I wrote the following and sent it to about a dozen
members of the lodge: “Due to the arrival of my future mason, I will be unable
to attend lodge this week. Feel free to call if you need me for anything.”
Since
sending that message I have received a flood of support from my fellow
brothers. It was one congratulatory text after another to the point that my
phone seems to be getting a little tired of having to chime and vibrate so
often. Family comes first is not just something that we say because it sounds
good, every brother in the lodge lives by that simple saying and supports those
masons who also embrace that way of thinking and living.
These
immediate gestures are what I hope to share with my son when he comes of age. It
is a bond, a fellowship, and a true brotherly love that cannot be matched in
any other civilian organization. It is something that I hope to share with my
son as he gets older and now is the time that I am building the groundwork so
that he can join the fraternity with a long standing connection with the
brotherhood. After all, the next generation is reliant on the current
generation especially when it comes to continuing a family legacy.
I
may not have much to offer my son at this point but I am going to work hard
each and every day so that he will look at me the same way that I see my own
father. He will know from where he comes (both my family tree as well as my
wife’s) and he will be able to build upon what has been achieved before him in
every generation. This includes my duty as a mason and instilling in him the
faith, character, and virtues that we all hold as brothers of the craft.
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