Five
years ago today my wife and I nervously paced around the synagogue waiting for
everyone to arrive. We had just finished taking the family pictures on the
stairs, signed the ketubah to the right side of the bimah, and we were now
anxiously waiting for the time to get started. What seemed forever to wait for,
including the two and a half year engagement, was over in what seemed like
seconds. While a memory that seems like a blur in time, the moments are as
vivid as the world currently surrounding us.
We
frequently look back on that day, flip through the pictures, and find ourselves
still amazed that it has now been five years since we became husband and wife (the gift for this year is wood).
While there have been a few moments here and there since that day that we would
have done differently or wished had gone better, we are here today stronger and
closer than we have ever been. With life getting busier and busier by the day,
I look forward to heading home for the night to be with my wife.
So
today we mark the first five years of our marriage with all the love that we
have shared during the past half-decade. Our bond has taken us from
Pennsylvania to Brooklyn to New Jersey to Jerusalem and back to Pennsylvania.
We have each experienced various levels of employment and kept a wide variety
of work hours. We have seen sickness and we have experienced health. We have struggled
financially but we live in the wealth of our connection to each other.
We
have seen one another at our best and at our worst. We have traveled around the
state and around the world. We have lived a life at varying degrees of
observance. Throughout those journeys and those different points in our life,
we have continued to stand by on another, grow as a couple, and, eventually,
find what works best for the two of us.
I
am grateful each morning to have you by my side (even when you are trying to
shake me awake as you yell at me to turn my alarm off), thankful for you
constantly supporting me no matter how insane my schedule gets, I appreciate
you keeping me grounded and forcing me to hold back at times when I try to do
too much, and I’m amazed that you put us with me day after day after day. Thank
you for the first five years of marriage. I will do my best to improve a few
things during the next five years. Happy Anniversary! I love you!
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