There
have been countless times when I have been sitting at my desk in the lodge room
looking up and down the sidelines wondering where my grandfather used to sit
during meetings. It is a connection that I have with my grandfather despite
never having the chance of getting to know him while growing up. Lodge is something
that we have in common and I am always reminded of that when I see his ring on
my finder and, now, when I look at the family Bible which I have been using recently for my genealogy research.
When
I was raised just over three years ago, my mom pulled me aside and handed me my
grandfather’s Masonic ring. She knew that I would appreciate and take care
of it. She also knew that I was one of the few people in the family who would
actually use it as there are not many masons in my family. The ring meant a lot
to my grandfather, it means a lot to my mom, and it certainly means a lot to
me. Now, just over three years later, my mom again pulled me aside and told me
that she wanted to give me my grandfather’s Masonic Bible. The ironic thing is
that my grandfather was presented his Bible just over three years after being
raised and now I am being presented with that same bible just over three years
since I was raised.
Not
only was this the Bible presented to him by his lodge but it has also served as
the family Bible with my grandparent’s marriage having been recorded in its
pages and my grandmother having recorded many of the births and deaths
throughout her life. Between the covers there are names across many generations
from the death of my great great grandfather all the way through the birth of
my niece... my name can be found in these pages too. All written in my grandmother’s
hand.
I
remember seeing my grandmother with the blue binding on her lap flipping
through the book and pulling out the papers tucked between the pages. This
became a more and more regular occurrence toward the end of her life. It was
also one of the few things that my mom wanted to hold on to after my
grandmother passed away. I know how much this Bible meant to my grandmother and
I know how much it means to my mom. I am being entrusted with its safe keeping
and it is not something I take lightly. After all, this is not just an item
that resonates with me as a mason, it is a connection to my grandfather, my
grandmother, and my mom.
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